One of the most discouraging aspects of leading a group, is seeing group members stagnant, backsliding, or simply repeating the same struggles in prayer time week after week.
How do we help them change and grow?
While there are many ways we can help, what rises above all of them, is the example we set.
Your example will have far more influence than any ice breaker, group discussion, prayer time, or social gathering.
You've heard it said, "show me your friends, and I'll show you your future."
So here is a question, what does the future look like for those you are rubbing shoulders with?
If we become most like the people we spend the most time with, what will your group members become like after spending time with you?
We have boiled down successful Group Leadership to 6 Leader Essentials.
Essentials #1 is pursuing Christ!
Pursuing Christ is always important, and always urgent.
As Jesus said,
"I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing." - John 15:5
If we want our group members to experience an active and growing faith, it starts with us modeling it.
Paul challenged Timothy about the importance of his example,
"Set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity...Be diligent in these matters; give yourself wholly to them, so that everyone may see your progress. Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers." - 1 Timothy 4:12, 15-16
He didn't just challenge Timothy about his example, he modeled it himself,
“Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” - Philippians 4:9
Who you are will have far more influence than any role you play.
So take heart, when leading group is a struggle and you wonder if you are making a difference, don't discount the influence of your example when you faithfully pursue Christ.
What are our thoughts? As you think about your own group experiences, who's example has most influenced your own faith?
Share your ideas on the Northridge Leaders Facebook Group.
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